Dear Amy: My wife and I are divorcing after 23 years of marriage. I am moving out soon. We have a 21-year-old son. I talked with him about it, and while he’s angry, he says he understands.

A readers tells Amy that after many years of unhappiness, he and his wife are divorcing. She’s calling him an adulterer, even to their 21-year-old son. But he says the explanation is much

And right now, because of this break-up, your son has about 10 times more relationship challenges than you do. He has to somehow navigate having a separate relationship with his angry, bitter and betrayed mother – and his liberated,