I have helped out my sister’s children over the years. (She is a single mom.) I’ve provided vacations every summer, school clothes at the end of summer, hosted them for many Christmas breaks and making sure they had presents,

In today's Ask Amy column, Amy Dickinson responds to someone who was disappointed to not be invited to a family wedding.

The wedding is small, and I did not make the guest list. I am disappointed but I understand that they have a tight budget. The problem is my sister has asked to stay with me during the weekend of festivities and I feel like it is a very insensitive request and rubbing my nose in the fact that I was not invited.