Brother-in-law says, "She told me she has had feelings for me ever since high school. She urged me not to tell my wife about this and I agreed."

She told me that she has had feelings for me ever since high school. She said she knew she could never act on those feelings, but that she wanted to be honest about it and that’s why she told me. I was completely stunned.

I grew up in the same town as “Carly,” the woman I later married. Her older sister “Susan” and I were in the same class in high school. Susan and I were friendly in high school, but I wouldn’t say we were exactly friends.