The Tender Bar is an excellent memoir by J.R. Moehringer, a young man growing up in Manhasset, Long Island, who struggles to find his way in life. It follows his journey from a troubled home to a local bar, with its characters and unexpected twists. The book is full of humor, sadness, and true-to-life stories of family and fatherhood. It is a gripping and unforgettable read that will keep readers engaged and reflecting upon their own lives.